In this second episode of “Borjouliya,” we explore the relationship between fatherhood and masculinity. The upbringing of children, especially boys, by fathers is often based on a toxic masculine mentality that produces emotionally distant men who are incapable of establishing or maintaining meaningful relationships.

This can happen because many men have never had the space or permission – when they were children – to fully express their emotions. This upbringing has a negative impact on boys and their surroundings later in life, as emotionally distant men who refuse to seek help end up creating unhealthy environments for themselves and those around them.

It is undeniable that fatherhood, as a set of practices and identities, is closely tied to motherhood and the traditional gender roles that stem from it. This would explain why fathers are often absent from their children’s lives, limiting themselves to a financial role, while other forms of care, both physical and emotional, are usually provided by mothers.

In this episode, we aim to promote an alternative vision of fatherhood, where children can build strong and positive relationships with their fathers, and where parents support and care for them jointly and equitably.

This episode is based on testimonies from men and the analysis of psychologist Sondos Garbouj.